Thursday, May 14, 2009

one crazy and eventful week

Poor Quinn, in the span of 7 days was our anniversary, Mother's Day and my birthday.

Our anniversary started out normal. We weren't planning on doing anything major that day as we were waiting for the weekend when Danny & Stacey were going to babysit. Unfortunately, that day Quinn got some bad news. The company that he was working for announced that they were shutting down. It came as a complete shock to everyone. Long story short, their publisher pulled funding and they just don't have enough money on their own to keep going. Needless to say that put a damper on the celebratory mood. But Quinn actually has quite a few prospects and I'm very confident something will work out soon in the coming weeks.

We ended up celebrating by leaving Asher with Stacey and Danny and going to watch Star Trek. It was a low key celebration but nice to get out and just sit and watch a movie sans baby.

The rest of the week was hectic and busy and stressful consisting of everything that accompanies losing work and looking for new work.

Yesterday was my birthday. It was nice to have Quinn home all day to help out. Around four or so in the afternoon I started to have some cramping. At first I thought it might be menstrual cramps and that I was going to be one of those women who menstruates even though she is nursing, but eventually the pain began to feel different. We went to dinner at Carrabba's with Danny, Stacey and Jax. Dinner was delish followed by a delicious orange/chocolate cake courtesy of Stacey. At home, I started to feel more and more pain. Then around 10 o'clock I could feel the intense pain in my back...by my kidneys. I knew I had a stone. I had a prescription from my pregnancy when I had another flare up, so I took some of that and tried to get the pain under control. No such luck. The vomiting began. The dinner and cake was not so delish the second time around. Finally around two the pain was pretty intense and I knew I wasn't going to make it through the night. I called Stacey who graciously came over to stay with Asher while Quinn took me to the hospital. Some lab work, a CT scan and some morphine later it was confirmed that I have another stone. Thank goodness we still have insurance! The doctor says it is close to passing so I'm certainly hoping this one won't give me as much trouble as the last one.

We got home around 6:30 this morning and were both exhausted. The worst part is that Asher had his best night ever and slept for 6 1/2 hours and I wasn't able to enjoy it. Luckily, once we got home he went down for another 3 hours to let me get some sleep and he has been so good today. And speaking of Asher, here is a Mother's Day picture of us. Enjoy!


8 comments:

GrandmaNutt said...

What a week you two are having!!! Isn't it bad enough without the kidney stone?!!! Wish I could be there to help out. Hope that your 'rock' passes quickly and effortlessly.

The light side of your posting is that you and Asher make the most beautiful madonna portrait. Good luck with all the challenges on your plate right now. You both are in our prayers.

Janet said...

I'm sorry for you kidney stone and loss of job - but wow are you pretty!

Dana said...

There's nothing like a good kidney stone to round out the perfect birthday celebration.

Cami said...

Dev, I am feeling sad and happy for you at the same time. Of course, so sad about the job (although glad you feel so comforted) and stone (ouch!) But, how can I not be so extremely happy for you when I see that picture of you and your baby. Happy bday!

sienna said...

I decided it's about time I leave you a comment since I am a regular blog stalker of yours! Asher is the cutest!! I hope you guys find a job here in Utah so I can hold him someday.
Sorry to hear about your bad news...hope things get better soon.

Cara said...

Happy Anniversary, Happy first Mother's Day, and Happy Birthday! Wow - May really is your month. Although I'm sure it's hard to feel celebratory when you're between jobs and in pain. June will be better.

KickButtMommy said...

at least things can only go up from here.

Stunning mommy and adorable baby!

FRYBABY said...

So to hear the bad news...but you know what they say....when one door closes, another one opens. Hopefully it will be a better one! Hope the kidney stone passes soon. Tony has had a few of those and from his experience I know they are NOT fun!! Good luck and God bless!